Archive for January, 2010
Goosebumps HorrorLand
- five terror inducing and unique park areas
- play in story mode or arcade mode
- 30 bone chilling rides and attractions
- multi-player features
- collectible monster cards
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Goosebumps Horrorland games are based on the popular Goosebumps books sold worldwide as well as the hit series on Fox Kids Network…. More >>
Vampires – Los Muertos
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A VETERAN HUNTER TEAMS UP WITH A CREW OF SLAYERS TO KEEP A PACK OF BLOOD-THIRSTY VAMPIRES FROM INVADING THE UNITED STATES INTHIS ACTION-PACKED, THRILL-RIDE SEQUEL TO JOHN CARPENTER’SVAMPIRES.Amazon.com
Jon Bon Jovi stars in this trashy but pretty entertaining horror flick. Vampires: Los Muertos centers on vampire hunter-for-hire Derek Bliss (Bon Jovi), who gets bounties from the likes of the “Van Helsing Group” for every bloodsucker he destroys. When a … More >>
Energy Vampires
Do you sometimes wonder why you feel so drained after being with some people, while you feel energized when being with others?
Some people are energy vampires, and actually drain energy from you. How do they do this? What can you do to avoid this?
WAYS PEOPLE DRAIN ENERGY
Sometimes the ways people drain energy is obvious, and sometimes it is very subtle. A fairly obvious way is talking non-stop. I wrote an article on talking addiction and received the following response from a reader:
”Thank you so much for your article on talking addiction. For years now, I have wondered why I would feel so drained after listening to my mother. My mom is one of those people that can stay on the phone talking for hours and hours, and it’s a monologue. She is never interested in what I have to say unless it is about her. Lately, I’ve found myself hiding from her. For years, I would dodge her phone calls to conserve my energy. I have mentioned to her that she talks a lot but I think that it goes in one ear and out of the other. I am so glad that I read your article. Now I know that I’m not being mean when I go into my personal space.”
Some people drain energy by always complaining, or by having dramas that need attending to. Some people drain energy by wanting to process all the time about their problems. Others drain energy through various means of trying to get approval – such as asking a lot of questions, or bragging a lot, or being overly nice. Other people drain energy by sulking or crying – being a victim and hoping someone will give them attention.
There is a very common, yet subtle, way that many people drain energy. If you are a person who ignores your own feelings and who does not take care of your own needs, then it is likely that you have an empty hole inside you. Empty holes are like vacuums – they want to get filled. Even if you don’t overtly pull on others for attention or approval, your empty hole is a pull on their energy. Because you are not taking care of your own needs for love, attention and approval, you are automatically pulling on others for their love, attention and approval. Or, you might be pulling on them for affection or sex as a way to get your empty hole filled. When they pull back, you are left wondering what you did wrong.
WHAT CAN YOU DO TO AVOID HAVING YOUR ENERGY DRAINED?
Most people who are energy vampires count on other people being so nice that they will give them the attention or approval they are seeking. Most people don’t like speaking up because they don’t want to hurt others’ feelings. However, when you do this, you are allowing yourself to take responsibility for the other person’s feelings rather than for your own feelings. You are abandoning yourself and making what the other person wants more important than taking care of yourself.
You cannot begin to stop the energy drain until you fully accept that you are not responsible for the other person’s feelings. It is your feeling responsible for the other person that allows you to get drained.
Once you accept that you are not responsible for the other person, but that you are responsible for yourself, you will discover that you can gently extricate yourself from a draining interaction. It is not hard to learn to get off the phone or walk away when you are taking responsibility for yourself rather than for the other person’s feelings.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. best-selling author of eight books, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.
The Vampire Diaries: The Struggle
- ISBN13: 9780061963872
- Condition: NEW
- Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
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In book two of the Vampire Diaries Elena Gilbert quickly realizes that the only thing more dangerous that being in love with a vampire is being desired by two. As Stefan struggles to suppress his instinctive thirst, Damon persists in his quest for Elena?s heart. A dark turn of events forces Elena to risk her mortality to save one of her immortal suitors. Ages: 12+… More >>
Buffy the Vampire Slayer Baird 09 Aug 2008

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